Solomon on Sex

I am a wife who has had many children. I would like to get breast augmentation and/or cosmetic surgery for my stomach. Is this okay?

0 - Solomon on Sex - NC-17 Warning
This is between you, your spouse, your doctor and the Lord. There are health risks to consider. A woman should make this a matter of prayer, asking God to help her understand her motives. These kind of surgeries are not wrong in themselves. They are done for survivors of cancer and other deforming diseases. It is not necessarily wrong for a woman to have these types of surgeries if her intent is to please her husband.

No wife should have this kind of thing done if she intends to attract the attention of men other than her husband. No wife should do this if she is consumed with making herself perfect. As always, a woman is responsible to dress and act in such a way that is not seductive.

I fear that when I come again my God may humble me before you, and I may have to mourn over many of those who sinned earlier and have not repented of the impurity, sexual immorality, and sensuality that they have practiced. 2 Corinthians 12:21 (ESV)

The word “
sensuality” means “lacking in modesty”

No husband should pressure his wife into these surgeries.